I should have anticipated this day

why- cause God is doing great things and today is one of those days where I just feel depleted- I shouldn't but I am- I mean God is doing amazing things in the lives of Celebration Church- we had an awesome leaders meeting- and were reminded when God does amazing things the devil is not happy

Yeah I get it - and today has been a day of kicking me around- woke up not feeling well- went to work and got the needed items done- and was on my way home to get a phone call about a situation at child care- let me just say it did not end well with a weeks suspension although it could have been worse with him being not allowed back forever.

As always my support team at school was there to talk me off the edge- no I am not serious about the edge but was there just to talk with - and his therapist was right there as well- so thankful of that not to mention prayers were lifting us up when it was all going on thank goodness of technology and texting. I still have a knot in the pit of my stomach but it will subside. Tomorrow is taken care of now I just need to work on the rest of the week.

These are times when that additional person in the house would come in handy-

I landed with Grace

ok - so early Saturday morning- I could not sleep so I came downstairs and did not turn the hall light on- are you seeing where I am going yet? well I missed the last 2 steps - oh I did not fall just landed very hard on my right foot- and when I walked off of it it- it did not feel right - so some ice early in the am - some ibuprofen and i will be good to go - so i thought- night world-

Well got up took the cat and dog to the vet and it was still hurting actually throbbing- so I decided to have it checked out- meanwhile during the time at the Drs my son had no sympathy and was being disrespectful. another topic another day- well you know tolerance is not there when you are not feeling 100% - any who-

my foot- severely bruised - sprain- strain- suppose to ice it- elevate it and compress it - oh and stay off it- yeah right-plus take some pain meds- and not lift heavy things

I stayed off it most of yesterday- elevated it and iced it- woke up this morning thinking not swollen good- went downstairs and got the alarm and was thinking this is good does not hurt- well until I laid back down again- so more ice today- more compression more pain meds- more elevation- I will be fine- if it still is sore I will get it rechecked- cause when I tore my meniscus I had all the range of motion and little pain as well and so hmmm- we shall see

Political Campaigns

I do not often or at all speak of politics- I am a voter and I do vote. But just my thought for today about it- why is it they have to slam each other in the tv commercials ? what does it prove? why would I want to vote for someone who keeps speaking ill of another?

I mean I know we all have different views of how things should be done and one way may not be the correct way- and you may not agree on either candidate so then what do you do?

My thoughts are not clear so I apologize- the campaigns of he did this when... or she voted like this... did you ever think they changed from their previous time and got things right.

Take time to get to know the candidates and not rely on the slamming of the other

The Bible says to be kind to one another- so political candidates be kind to one another-

Assertive

Becoming assertive is an art, and it can be difficult for both those who are highly aggressive, and those who are very passive. It requires one to find a balance between these two extremes. Being assertive is a critical skill that you must master, as it will mean the difference between a long and rewarding career, and a short and ineffective one. The one word that can best describe being assertive is find a balance passiveness and aggressiveness

This is something I am trying to work on to become a better manager- for thos who are managers - or are leaders in you company - let me know how you do it with out coming across as aggressive or defensive-

Learning each day of to manage better

Life is Good Eternal Life is Better

I love this song and we sing it in children's church

Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better

All around me smiling faces
Different people from different places
Time is short, don't wanna waste it
No ashamed so I'll just say it
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa

All around me your creation
Brings me to my knees in adoration
Beauty here cannot compare to
What I see when I first see you

Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa

All around me your creation
Brings me to my knees in adoration
Beauty here cannot compare to
What I see when I first see you

Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Life is good, eternal life is better
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa

Goals

Goal accomplished at Kidzone- Mr Adam was made into a human pizza- because we hit 30 in attendance.. Honestly- it was kind a gross if you asked me- but what would you do for kids to get them all excited?

Not only do we have goals in Children's Church but I have goals in life as well- I try to set out some each year to see how well I can do accomplishing them- I am taking some online classes now- just to have another bit of knowledge in my cap and want to finish that in less then a year- I also have been training for a triathlon in the coming year- 2 goals of mine personally

Professionally- I have goals that are there for me to do as well- I need to accomplish these too- for me they are a little diffcult and I need to push through to accomplish them- why difficult cause in some respect they do not go with my personality- but as a leader I need to hone these skills-

Sprititual Goals- of course to draw closer to God everyday and trust Him in all things - read the word and pray more- there are so many needs. Be used by Him where ever he needs me.

Marcus has goals too- he accomplished one of these over the weekend- swimming across the pool. yeah- its only taken 5 years but goal accomplished- I thought he was secretly practicing somewhere he did awesome-

Goals-
A goal or objective is a projected state of affairs that a person or a system plans or intends to achieve—a personal or organizational desired end-point in some sort of assumed development

Take time to set your goals- Work hard and deligently seek after them

Take Time

we all get busy and wrapped up in our lives -sometimes we forget to take time- self included-this morning I am taking time.

Take Time
by Author Unknown

TAKE TIME to think;
it is the source of power.

TAKE TIME to read;
it is the foundation of wisdom.

TAKE TIME to play;
it is the secret of staying young.

TAKE TIME to be quiet;
it is the moment to seek God.

TAKE TIME to be aware;
it is the opportunity to help others.

TAKE TIME to love and be loved;
it is God's greatest gift.

TAKE TIME to laugh;
it is the music of the soul.

TAKE TIME to be friendly;
it is the road to happiness.

TAKE TIME to dream;
it is what the future is made of.

TAKE TIME to pray;
it is the greatest power on earth.

Ok- I may have been... and

a little antsy this week in thoughts and behavior concerns-just me being Michele- I will calm down now that the first week is over- he did better then I did- not sure why anxious- just was and probably have driven the staff wackadoodle with emails - phone calls and texts- I promise I will be better. The bus seems to be doing well- he is doing well in classes- he is doing well at childcare minus something that will be corrected today- doing well at home except for a few incidences and when they occur it is usually when he is tired. I am seeing a pattern.
So success - me success but still need to relax (hmm some smart person told me that) some more - I will - I am getting better and know he is in good hands-

here is the and part- Happy Birthday Grandma - she would have been 97 today. I am sure she is proud of her grand kids and great grand kids

Its our year

truly believe this is our year- I know the year starts in January but for me it starts around now when school starts- I am not saying everything will be a day of roses- but we are starting off the year well.

Marcus and I had a great conversation on our way to church- he was upset cause he did not earn a raffle ticket for a little issue on the bus yesterday- he went into more detail with me on the way to church which he said he was going to talk more about it tomorrow at school- he stuck his tongue out at a child which prompted the other child to hit him- Marcus said he just wanted to be mean (M wanted to be mean) I said why - cause he was bothering my friend and I did not want him too- well did your friend say something to him - yes and he kept bothering him. I want to help my friend. I loved that so much

we went to church tonight early for prayer and Marcus stayed with me and prayed he prayed for school- his teachers-his friends- he prayed for the list we had - this was so awesome for cause he was genuine and so wanted to do it longer- blessed my heart so much

so he has a point sheet at school and home and today 100% for both- this is a first for him so this is our year - I believe it with all my heart- breakthrough for Marcus -

Wednesday - mid week

Well things appear to be going well- Marcus loves his reading class and now has said he likes Mr Madley- which is a good thing- he has had 2 great days and I am so proud- some slight issues at home - when he gets tired towards the end of the day- but hey I am the same way- although the screaming and kicking things I am hoping he will stop doing- day to day process but all good

Well his official day to get braces is October 13th - he wanted them on today but I said we had to wait- he also wants to pay for them or pay for dinner for me or something- He was like mommy you always pay for everything if I get a gift card for somewhere I am paying for you to have something- how sweet-

Not sure what it is but I will take it - he says he has begun asking questions at school when he does not understand something. I said great cause that is how we learn and if I am unsure I ask questions too.
You do was his response and I am like yes-

Service tonight at Celebration Church- you should come if you live in the Tampa area- we always love to have additions to the family.
I am looking ahead to the weekend already and sleeping in on Saturday I hope- no work nothing planned - well maybe biking or swimming but that is about it.

It was a good day yesterday

School went well- but I think my favorite part of the day was run- walking with Marcus for over 1 mile and 3/4 until Gig was able to meet up with Marcus to work out with him- (I will come back to that)

so I went to the track thinking I would get a good mile in but was able to do 3 miles and run about 1/3rd of it- this is a miracle- I do not like running but had my little man pushing me and then when he was running out of gas when he was working out I ran beside him to push him ( well he ended up passing me and finishing way before me)

Gig came and worked out with him- Marcus asked him at the end of summer if he could work out with him from time to time- and Gig is taking an hour or so every week to every couple of weeks to come and work with him on the track. Gig is a great influence on him and someone Marcus respects. So thankful he takes this time with him.

Praying for our teachers

As school begins today -let's take a moment to pray for our teachers- they help shape and mold our children.

Father-
we thank you for our teachers, behavioral specialist, guidance counselors, principals, lunch staff and all who help run our schools. I ask that you bless them, guide them, direct every aspect of their lives. I thank you for the gift you have given us in them-protect the staff at LMES. Be with our children protect them from harm- protect the buses and bless the bus drivers and their helpers- we glorify you for the touch that you have on these special people that we have the awesome pleasure of knowing-thank you Lord for the great year we are about to have
In your name we pray AMEN

Long weekend

Long weekend long week long last few weeks- I guess I did not realize it til today when all things around me just began to bother me- just simple things-- I need to remember to take time to myself- going going going does not help me at all-
It kinda worked out nice- I had to go into work twice today because of some facility issues and Adam and Brenda took Marcus after church so I could- well I head back to their house while they were checking on somethings and fell asleep (not in car at their house) - hmm I guess I needed it-feeling better now because of it-
So my plan is to plan- plan meals- plan time to run- swim- and bike- plan time for me- and this may be just in the evening - plan - time for a new school year new time of change- a better change

Hmmm

Yes that is my title at 5:30 in the morning on a Saturday- I wish I could sleep in but oh no - my internal alarm clock does not sleep on the weekends- that is ok- I have already fed the dog- done laundry- take care of the cats- and gather some stuff for today-
My plans for the day- get M up in about an hour and head off once again to Brenda and Adams- I have to work today -Marcus has blood work to get done- I have life coaching and then we set up for Children's Church- I want to sleep in- hmm maybe next weekend.
Meanwhile - this is the weekend before school starts- back to a normal schedule- Marcus I think is feeling better about starting - some changes this year but it will be good.
We are set- I just have to get a folder for him for his point sheet for before and after school- hoping when school starts we do not regress in some areas- we have done great over the summer with it- not going where I am talking just praying it does not regress.

As you see my list of things to do and then some- I stopped for a moment to read my devotion and here is what it was about- God is so timely

Today's Truth
Proverbs 31:17 (NIV) "She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks."
Friend To Friend
Many of us check off neatly penciled boxes. Some draw lines through the tasks we've finished. A select few of us even add tasks that we've already completed to our list so that we've got accurate accomplishment records at the end of the day! (Present company included!) J Some of us keep track of what we need to do each day in our heads, while others track progress of daily goals electronically.

There are days I fluff up my list. Instead of simply writing, "Do three loads of laundry," I'll create twelve list items to check off that read:

· Wash whites
· Dry whites
· Fold/hang whites
· Put away whites
· Wash colors
· Dry colors
· Fold/hang colors
· Put away colors
· Wash darks
· Dry darks
· Fold/hang darks
· Put away darks

Oh, how I love to check boxes! Why? I want to be productive woman. I want my work to matter. It's pretty much a daily struggle for me. As an eternal optimist, I wake up anticipating that the seconds, minutes, and hours of each day will bend to cooperate with the demands of my list.

Yeah, right.
I'm such a dreamer. It just never seems to work out that simply or efficiently.

I'm guessing that you are in this daily struggle with me. Right? No matter what it looks like, thinks like, or prints off like, many of us feel overwhelmed by the abyss of a rarely satisfied to-do list. We face constant demands that call to us and vie for our attention. We sift through the essentials and the fire drills, then we go to bed, wake up, and do it all again. The abyss of a to-do list can be so exhausting!

The good news is that we don't need to face our lists alone. God offers to come along side of us daily to provide the strength, perspective, and wisdom we need. In the Bible, we read of a woman who approached each day with God-power and God-perspective:

"She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks" (Proverbs 31:17, NIV).

Though this is an impressive statement about her work ethic and though it seems this fictional woman dominates her daily to-do list, it's important to consider the source of her strength: God. At the end of the chapter, Scripture shows us that she "...fears the Lord..." (Proverbs 31:30, NIV). Her source of strength is rooted in faith and in her dependence on God. Ours should be, too.

Your list looks different from mine. We all have unique ministries, friendships, jobs, responsibilities, and families. Whether you are in the work force, unemployed, or retired or a stay-at-home mom, a single mom, or an empty nester - a wife, a widow, a single woman, or a divorcee - God can and will give you strength for each day when you prioritize Him and fear Him.

Consider the following verses:

"Are you so foolish? After beginning with the Spirit, are you now trying to attain your goal by human effort?" (Galatians 3:3, NIV).

My son is awesome

Well- I know I post on here about the rough times with Marcus but they are not all rough-and actually improving as we go through this journey as a family-
I love to watch him get the understanding of something.
Yesterday we were working on a book- I am not Bad I am just Mad- helps him deal with his anger and works on alternatives to handling things. Good book and he was coming up with some amazing ideas
then today we were working on times tables well actually a problem Mr Madley gave him at meet and greet 7 x 4 x 6- he could not visualize it in his head so I broke it up and we worked on it together- he was like awww I get it now- I am like awww you sure did.
He is an amaziing young man - truly he is- I am blessed to have him as my son- I am glad God chose me to be his mom - Oh I know I complain but it is only when I am worn out- I love to watch him succeed - he is hilarious-when he gets a concept- like the light bulb went off -ding

We will be thriving this year in school- I can feel it-I can sense it and more importantly I will be praying for it-

Ups DOWNs and in betweens of life

My title is my day today- we had a good day today- we went to meet and greet our teacher at the most fabulous school in the Pasco County area - Lake Myrtle Elementary- with the most fabulous staff around-Marcus met Mr Madley today - he already knows him but now he will get to know him even better- I am antsy with anticipation of how this year will play out- I have a good feeling. Hope my feeling is right.
They have changed a few things on how points and bus reward will occur-its a good thing- allowing the kids to be more accountable for their behaviors- maybe help them think twice before they react.

We left there and headed to get some blood work done on Marcus- and here is where the day begins to deteriorate for a bit- I was not told he had to be fast from food or meds- so no blood work today- ugh- this is when single parenting stinks- you try to accomplish everything in one day and it back fires- oh well we have new appointment on Saturday in between work and Life coaching.
then it improves as Marcus studies his multiplication tables- and Miss Luisa comes by- he was very attentive today which was good-
dinner was fine - until I asked a question- and then he punched the seat- he got it under control for a bit and then I am really not sure what set him off in the 3 minute car ride to church- and it was not pretty- he thought things were funny - tried to hit - was using his bible as a weapon (do not go there Uncle Adam) tried to kick- then he rolled down the window and got out (we were in the parking lot) then as I sat there trying to ignore- I grew very weary and it brought tears to my eyes- still not reacting. yes he climbed out of the window opened the door wind up the window and locked and closed the door all while I was playing with my phone- then I locked the doors since he wanted out - then he wanted in- and began jumping on the car - he then went in the church and I got out-he still wanted in- and it continued to go down hill from there- I had to restrain him and was not doing well when PastorLarry stepped in- he is very good with him- and I stepped away - I was toast-these are the times when I do not know how much more I can handle- I know it was a brief moment of time (felt like eternity-2 hours) he finally got his act together and the rest of the evening was peaceful- but I am still toast.

Me Me me Me

Well- I did not have anything profound so I thought I would answer some questions

Are you currently in a serious relationship?
Yes I have a relationship with Jesus Christ my Savior- other then that no- hopeful to someday with that person God has for me

What was your dream growing up?
Working with animals and raising a family- hmm dreams do come true.

What talent do you wish you had?
not sure of this-we all have a multitudes of talents- do we use them as God intended.

If I bought you a drink what would it be?
a mocha cappaccunio

Favorite vegetable?
broccoli cooked just right- although I love cabbage

What was the last book you read?
I continously read the Bible and currently working on The Bait of Satan.

Any Tattoos and/or Piercings? Explain where.
yep piercings 4 in my left ear 2 in my right

Worst Habit?
Not sure. staying up way too late thinking on things

If you saw me walking down the street would you offer me a ride?
hope not I am trying to get a workout in

What is your favorite sport?
to do- I like swimming biking and tennis. to watch -track (my son) and football

Do you have a Pessimistic or Optimistic attitude?
OPtimistic- I try to think the positive in almost all things- there are times a little negativity comes my way

What would you do if you were stuck in an elevator with me?
sing

Worst thing to ever happen to you?
Well it was the worst and best at the same time- when I had to take my son to get help and leave him there for a week.

Tell me one weird fact about you.
hmm- If I said one many of my friends would say is that all you came up with-

Do you have any pets?
yes- 3 cats and 1 dog-

If you could change one thing about how you look, what would it be?
not sure-

What color eyes do you have?
well my friend calls them cow patty brown

Ever been arrested?
Nope

Bottle or can soda?
ice cold bottle of soda- although I am trying to stay away from Soda

If you won $10,000 today, what would you do with it?
pay off bills and put it in the bank

What's your favorite place to hang out?
I don't have one. to relax by waterfall or moving water- it is very soothing or a place that has a fireplace-very relaxing

Favorite thing to do in your spare time?
hang with friends- bike- run- swim-spend time with my son- sleep

Do you swear a lot?
nope see no need in it.

In one word, how would you describe yourself?
Compassionate

Favorite and least favorite food?
Favorite: Peanut Butter Chocolate Ice Cream Least Favorite: slimy food

Do you believe in God?
I would not be here today if it were not for the Grace of God- so yes yes I DO

Prayer changes everything

When think you are done praying pray some more- I have learned to continue to pray through all circumstances in life-
Why do I do this it changes everything- I pray with Marcus every morning where ever we are going-it is how we start the day-its how we end our night-
It is great when your child loves to pray and he asks to do it- and more importantly they believe in what they are praying- the power of prayer changes things
So when you do not think you can pray anymore for a certain need and you think it will never change keep praying keep pressing in -Focus on God's promise

Whats Happening with me

So glad you asked- well I have become a better parent over the summer- learning and growing and working on how to handle my young man better and better and I feel like I am- oh I still am learning and probably always will but its been a good summer for me.
I am excited that in September we will be launching Kidzone Jr- we have grown so much we need to separate out the younger ones and dedicate time and teaching just for them- 3,4, and 5 year olds- (hmm this is where I fell in love with this age and decided to adopt- oh no not again with adopting - one is plenty)
Getting organized with school for Marcus - I may just have everything for school on Wednesday- supplies, meds- contact info- new clothes- new point sheet- child care- and great teachers ( so important)-

Each day I try to make a better day then the last for me - for Marcus-
Marcus and I are trying to stay in shape- I actually started running and not walking (this is a miracle) oh not far distances by any means but a start. Oh i say what is happening to me not Marcus-

My thought for the day-
Do you feel like you are treading water and not sure how long you will last? Well you are not alone- you can make it in this world just realize you are not alone- you have a person to call on - 1st God is there - right beside you holding you and making all things possible- 2nd friends and family are amazing they lift you up so you do not feel like you are sinking- no we are not alone in this world.

You are the reason

We Were The Reason – David Meece

As little children
We would dream of Christmas morn
Of all the gifts and toys
We knew we’d find
But we never realized
A baby born one blessed night
Gave us the greatest gift of our lives

We were the reason -if you were the only one
That He gave His life -he would have still given his life
We were the reason
That He suffered and died - He did this just for you
To a world that was lost
He gave all He could give
To show us the reason to live

As the years went by
We learned more about gifts
The giving of ourselves
And what that means
On a dark and cloudy day
A man hung crying in the rain
All because of love, all because of love
I’ve finally found the reason for living
It’s in giving every part of my heart to Him
In all that I do every word that I say -Jesus help me to do everything you want me to do
I’ll be giving my all just for Him, for Him I want to give my all for you Jesus
He is my reason to live

We sometimes need a reminder- as we go through life we get caught up in our struggles - our faith testers - tribulations- offenses- we need to remember that He is the reason we live- no struggles - no tribulations- no offenses can take away the love that He has for me- and You-
Remember you are the reason he gave his life-
If you want to hear more about how He can change your life- come to Celebration and see what a difference he can make in your life- You are loved

Can you hear it?

It's the most wonderful time of the year- the happ happiest season of all. School starts in 9 days- aww -
Summer was not too bad really it wasn't - actually best summer since Marcus came into my life. We stayed everywhere we went- no places kicked him out- so to me that was successful- although yesterday could have been the first- although he did not hurt anyone other then his momma- I have the bruise to prove it- but I handled it quite well- probably could have used a little tweaking but by and large was a good moment for me . FYI- he is very strong- How do I do it? you may ask- God gives me the strength- he knows right when to kick it in. I need to keep working out though.
I am looking forward to this school year- why cause I can see the potential in Marcus - I can see it-We have come so far this summer- this is going to be a very good year- I am believing-
We have plans in motion to start off right- we have childcare in place- point sheets ready to be used- rewards and consequences ( this one I need to work on a little more). New teacher- Just as awesome as Mrs Crossley- gotta love the stingray team- Mr Madley will be his teacher this coming year and he will prepare him over the next 2 years to be successful out of Lake Myrtle- I am not sure why because the whole team is going to middle school with us - LOL.
I am attending a meeting today while he is at his aunt and uncles in Clearwater and then Uncle Adam will pick him up for me and then I will meet up after my meeting today- the boy is so loved.

I got up and ran this morning with the dog- not too far just in my village -then off to the meeting- yeah

Top 10 things I learned this summer

10. Support is Awesome


9. Ignore Ignore Ignore


8. Send child away for 3 weeks and have quiet time so you can regroup


7. Going on Vacation with your child is life changing- will need to do again soon


6. A lot of love and prayers go a long way


5. Point sheets are the bomb - especially when he has control of it - and he is honest about his behavior


4. Rewards are so incentive


3. Marcus is Maturing


2. Observation is very powerful


And the Number 1 thing I learned your cell phone is a life saver - it keeps you smiling and not from going insane

Our God

Our God is greater
Our God is stronger
God you are higher than any other
Our God is Healer
Awesome in power
Our God, Our God
and if our God is for us
then who could ever stop us
and if our God is with us
then what could stand against (Chris Tomlin)

Do you believe the words of this song- I do- we serve and awesome God- miracles are happening - lives are changing- God is moving- where at Celebration . Come see what God is doing-
Do you need a miracle- do you need Jesus in your life- Do you want to be a part of an amazing family who will stand with you- pray with you - cry with you- lift you up- be real with you- then you need to come to Celebration Church of Tampa

Can you believe

school starts in a little over a week -12 days actually- not counting down or anything- just glad to start the year or should it be we made it through the summer- and the best part improvement in behaviors- got love it when a plan works

Although we may have a few bumps in the coming school year - we will have a successful one-

Marcus worked out with Coach Gig last night and he worked hard- well Coach Gig worked him out hard- he was sore this morning- Gig said he would call and Marcus could workout with him whenever- gotta love that

I am adopted and so are you

You are probably thinking ok Michele no you adopted a child but you yourself are not - oh yes yes I am and so are you read this song from Down by the Creek Bank

I am adopted, I’m a special kid you see
I’m proud to be a member of the royal family
My father owns a kingdom You’re welcome as can be
So come on up to my fathers house and join our family

I’m adopted I’m chosen I bear my Fathers name
Just livin the life of luxury in the castle with the King
I am adopted, I’m a special kid you see
There’s room in His big kingdom for a million kids like me
He loves the little children, He gives me everything I need

I’m adopted, I’m chosen, I bear my fathers name
Just livin the life of luxury in the castle with the King
I’m adopted, I’m chosen, I bear my fathers name
Just livin the life of luxury in the castle with the King

Oh what a Bear I have had today-

Yes this was my son today- well up until about 2 + hours ago when he slept - early night tonight as well-
It started off this morning and we have waves of ugliness and aggression- so thankful for the support I have and the prayers that were offered up as I sat in a parking lot before Sunday school - he finally got in control and started again once at church for a few minutes before children's church and then afters as well

You know though a year ago I would have handled it so much differently- I would have drove to church with him screaming and hollering and then handled it there- yet when you wait and he realizes you are not giving in hmm his attitude changes. lots of patience- and waiting him out and he will comply- ignore ignore ignore (unless he is hurting himself or others) which he was hitting my car door-not enough to damage it though

One of my kids ( although he is not anymore gave me a compliment today) he said coach you have so much patience with him- well its learned and it works so much better-I do get worn out- not sure if you completely understand that statement- but for me I have to be thinking ahead and know it some sense what he is going to do- I did actually want to cry on my way home today cause he wore me out not physically for a change just mentally and emotionally- but you know I am actually enjoying how i handle him - I am proud of how well I am doing which transfers into how well he is doing.